I should also express that one can also be concerned that the other will not live up to the fantasy - and if one is any good at fantasizing, that is almost certainly likely. It's the same theme: being concerned about the inability to cope with the difference between the fantasy and the reality, and rather enjoying the longing and dreams.
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Date: 2006-01-15 10:44 am (UTC)From: